The reality is.. many women in Indonesia, once they have husbands and kids, would up and take off from the real world to retreat into their own worlds, where their kids are the center of their universes and nothing in the real world is important anymore.
So you end up with women in their 30s who constantly reply "i don't know"or "oh, i thought you were talking about Rachel, the cousin." Not that I mind women who do that, I mind when they do that IN MY PRESENCE!!!
I get furious and all I can think about is forcing a hot iron rod down their throats....




